According to Cosmopolitan Magazine, you know that look where his eyes
slide past you...then turn back? Wouldn't it be great to know what stopped
him? You totally can. "There are a few things men instantly observe when
they meet a woman," says Jackie Black, PhD, author of Meeting Your Match.
Learn what they are and you can maximize your, um, assets. Then you'll
have your pick.
This is all about evolution. Since caveman days, dudes have been drawn to
lush locks, which signal that a woman is healthy (translation: shaggable). 2. If Your Smile Is Genuine
Sometimes your eyes crinkle a bit when you grin. Most men are good at
distinguishing the vibe of this kind of smile, which says you're relaxed
and fun. 3. The Size of Your Group
You don't want a big bunch (it'll be hard for him to approach) or just one
friend (he'll figure you wouldn't desert her to talk to him). The perfect
crew size? Three. Your two buds can keep each other company when you slip
away. 4. The Pitch of Your Voice
Studies show that men are drawn to voices in a slightly higher register
(think Kristin Bell's), probably because — yep, evolution — they're
reliable signs of youth and reproductive health. 5. Your Hip-to-Waist Ratio
Yet again, blame eons of human history. Men instinctually look for baby
mamas. If your waist is noticeably smaller than your hips, it signifies
fertility — a huge point in your favor. A wide belt will emphasize that
hourglass shape. 6. Your Glowiness
Guys associate a radiant complexion with good mental health. That's
because stress and anxiety usually cause breakouts and dull skin. So those
lotions and bronzers you sweep over your cheeks? Totally worth it. 7. What's Fake About You
Not personality-fake, but artificial-accoutrement- fake: lashes, hair
extensions, etc. To guys, these things shout high-maintenance! Not good. 8. Your Eyes
People focus on eyes more than they do on any other body part. And
dramatic eye makeup will have him zeroing in on your peepers even more. Sources: Daniel Amen, MD, author of The Brain and Love; David Feinberg,
PhD, Assistant Professor in the Department of Psychology, Neuroscience,
and Behavior at McMaster University; Helen Fisher, PhD, Professor of
Anthropology at Rutgers University and author of Why Her? Why Him?; Lisa
Shield, dating coach in Los Angeles
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