Did you ever read or hear of the book "Men are from
Mars women are from Venus"? Psychotherapist, Dr. John Gray gives a great
delivery of his theory. I am
particularly impressed with the role-playing of male and female
interactions. Gray portrays in his New
York Best Seller, proven ways for men and women to improve their communication
by acknowledging the differences between their needs and wants.
Just like with Seller's and Buyer's they each have their own
set of needs and wants. Now, let me draw
your attention to my theory and how we can translate Gray's findings between
Men and Women and apply them to Seller's and Buyer's. Although Seller and Buyer may collide, not
often but it does happen. One can't live
without the other. The needs of Seller and Buyer are different. Seller's want the highest possible price for
their home and the Buyer's want to offer the lowest possible price. However, when the financial needs of Seller
and Buyer are met effectively through the expert negotiation skills of a
REALTOR there is a meeting of the minds, a union is made, and it's called an
acceptance.
Sellers act like a Seller but think like a Buyer. Remember when you purchased your home? That
very home you live in right now, the home you take pride of ownership in. Yes, that's the one. Visualize your home through the eyes of a
prospective Buyer. Picture yourself when
you purchased your home. What were you feeling?
Buyers today are savvy, they know what they want and so do you.
Buyers are looking for a long time investment so you want to
touch the Buyers emotional side. Have
them fall in deeply in love with your home before they even hit the front
door. Make sure your curb appeal is
immaculate, add a little color with flowers of the season to your landscaping.........make your home
shine. They are thinking about what their monthly expenses will be for the
home. You might want to create a check
list of utilities and monthly maintenance expenses for the prospective Buyer. Live it for the prospective Buyer during the
viewing of your home. Buyers are also
thinking about what their inspector will find during the home inspection. It may be a good idea for you to have a home
inspection done before placing your home on the market. That way you'll know ahead of time what
repairs the buyer may ask for. Consider
making repairs to any thing called out on the report as a safety hazard. By going that extra little mile will help you
get your asking price. Make sure to
contact me for any questions that you may have.
I'm always here to serve your real estate needs at (619)368-6382
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